You are on a journey through life. Everything is going along fine-and-dandy. Work, home, and "me time" are all in sync. Then it happens without warning. It hits the fan.
You're in a tailspin. The world around you is collapsing. Routines are out the window, and you are flying by the seat of your pants. The stress level on a 24/7 basis is 9.9 on a scale of 10. In your darkest moments, you are forced to make decisions, but you're an emotional wreck
When everything is going fine and dandy. When you are calm and collected. When you have the ability to make unemotional decisions based on facts and figures.
Are you calm, cool, and collected right now? Generally speaking, are things fine and dandy? If they are, then think about it.
Do you want to work with an emotional-based, hug & mug salesperson who is 100% focused on making the biggest commission possible with the least amount of effort, or do you want to work with a true fiduciary-based investment advisor and manager when everything is fine and dandy?
When it hits the fan, who do you want?
You're BMOC (Big Man On Campus) and nothing ever happens to you; until it does.
If you don't get it, move on and stop wasting your time on this website.
Seriously. If you are going to keep doing the same thing while expecting a different result, then you might as well be a happy loser than a miserable loser who is tormented with the inability to do what needs to be done.
You know what needs to be done. What are you waiting for?